Would you rather have someone speak with you or at you? Do you know the difference? Is it really all that important? Maybe you're thinking of someone now who continually speaks at you, probably doesn't feel all that good? In episode number two, Jason and Dennis tackle this very question, With or At. Thanks for joining us, for commenting, for subscribing and inviting others to do the same.
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Episode Notes. Is there anything you missed or you wanted something for your notes. Here is a simple outline of what we discussed.
- When you Speak AT people…
- People are a means to an end
- Words are just words
- You waste the moments that you have them
- You take no time to learn someone's story
- You have an MBA in talking Down
- You're a Jedi at one upping
- You make people guess what you're thinking
- Clarity is not a part of your communication
- You Assume the worst and you let your emotions run rampant and cause damage.
- When you Speak WITH people, you…
- Genuinely Care for People
- Really understand how powerful words are
- Realize moments with people are Precious
- You're a student of People
- You talk UP--not Down,
- You're a Master Question Asker
- You actually LISTEN more than you Speak
- Never one UP but you LIFT up
- You don't force a connection
- You Communicate Continually
- Your Emotions are Tamed so they don't cause GREAT damage.
