Who are some of "the ones" you have created for in the past? Spend time being grateful for each of them.
Now flip it— think of someone you have been "the one" for. Spend time being grateful for those artists.
Jonathan Jones said "…art's story is not a trajectory of ascent, but more of a looping spiral, constantly retracing its steps." Look at your current artistic practice and consider the overlap you share with arts of other times and places.