Kane, McConnell and I sat down to discuss the book, The Truth, by Neil Strauss where he talks about how he was able to hang up his player, pickup artist shoes and choose monogamy and marriage.
It's a great book, well worth reading and there is so much to unpack and learn from and plenty to think about including:
- How to lay down a great routine
- DHV - Display of Higher Value
- American ideas about sex, dating and relationships
- Let the girls get ready instead of encouraging them to be ugly
- Western delusions about sex and relationships
- The post-consent dating world of Tinder
- Why dating apps are not your friend
- Sex addiction...is it a real thing?
- The dangers of porn and masturbation
- Is it trauma or is it life?
- Successful enough to fail rather vs failing enough to be successful
- Bandaids for your dating lives and how to avoid them
- It's important to make your sexual fantasies come true
- Rules vs intents in relationships
- Compersion - Is it possible to enjoy your partner's sexual pleasure with someone else?
- Swinger's parties and the many ways to enjoy them
- Relationship Management and how to do it all wrong
- To live your fantasies, you have to think practically
- Is being divorced with kids, the best life?
- and a whole lot more...
