I feel directionless in life, I don't know what to choose next, and I need to figure things out. Because in Motherland? I have no other choice. I've been goal setting, problem solving, and trying to learn how to take care of myself in an effort to find a solution. But one thing keeps getting in the way. How do I mother others without someone mothering me?
Key Takeaways:
[1:09] My TV interview and why I chose the title Motherland
[3:08] Waiting for things I know won't happen
[4:48] My mom's losing her independence and I'm left mothering myself
[6:52] My psychic, visit from Molly who told me to get rid of manipulators
[8:08] Being told to take care of myself and not take things personally
[9:39] Being parentified as a child, but wanting to change
[12:27] Making outcome based goals makes me feel like a failure
[13:22] Working on my mobility is a process goal
[16:18] If I stay where I am, how will I change?
[18:02] I've never really taken good care of myself
[19:19] I need to promote my book and figure out my podcast
[22:32] I am at a fork in the road and don't know how to make things happen
[23:59] Enjoy whatever your January will be
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