In this episode, Dr. Matt Zakreski joins Wendy Taylor to discuss effective ways parents can support their gifted or twice-exceptional children. Dr. Matt emphasizes the importance of proactive skill-building and future planning, encouraging parents to take action from where they are now. He also explores the concept of asynchrony in gifted children's development and how understanding this can help parents provide targeted support.
Key Points:
- Proactive Skill-Building: Start taking action now to support your child's development.
- Asynchrony in Development: Gifted children may develop unevenly across different areas, requiring tailored support.
- Setting Realistic Goals: Collaborate with educators and set achievable goals for your child's development.
- Collaboration with Educators: Approach school meetings with a cooperative mindset, acknowledging the school team's efforts.
- Acknowledging Asynchrony: Recognize and address the asynchrony in your child's development to provide effective support.
Example of Effective Support:
- Dr. Matt shares a successful example of a middle school student attending high school for specialized arts classes, demonstrating how accommodating asynchrony in development can lead to positive outcomes for gifted students.
Collaboration with the School System:
- Approach collaboration with empathy and a focus on finding practical solutions for the child's needs.
- Start meetings with a positive and collaborative tone, emphasizing unity and shared responsibility for the child's well-being.
- Maintain ongoing communication and be prepared to address difficult topics multiple times to find effective solutions.
