In this episode, we have Andre talk about relationships, the process of people coming together, and then, why all of a sudden, misery and bad things happen. He discusses the dynamic that happens when relationships go south and what you and your spouse can do to take care of your relationship and let it grow deeper, better, and stronger.
Listen in, learn "the work" that you need to do, and live that badass relationship with your spouse.
Quotes:
"I'm talking about allowing the man to be a man. He needs to do the manly things."
"A lot of women, out of fear, [they] look to control the situation. They look to control the relationship. They look to control the man. And it's fucking dangerous."
"Misery only comes out of expectations."
"Expectations, the ones that cause problems, don't happen because of love. They happen out of judgment."
"Understanding who I am, and therefore, how I'm going to treat the love of my life. And if we can stay there, then now we're going to get that result long term."
"The only way to make things better is for you to make them better."
"So, [to] anybody out there in a relationship, what I strongly recommend is [to] find ways of communication."
"We record. Everything that's happened in this journey, we are today."
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Show Notes:
(00:00) Podcast Intro
(00:43) Greetings and episode introduction
(01:46) It's 100% on each side
(05:23) Respect has to be in the middle
(11:51) You start with you
(14:41) By doing "the work," people can stay happy
(17:20) Misery cheats
(21:05) You have to wake up and change you
(23:39) Learn to be in communion with your spouse
(25:54) Find ways together to keep growing
(26:55) Understanding your blueprint
(31:12) Updates and events announcements
