HOW TO BUILD A POSITIVE SOCIAL CIRCLE. We're sure you've heard the saying, "Birds of a feather flock together." Who you surround yourself with can either make you or break you. We've all been in relationships that seem to always keep us down and made us feel less than our true selves. In this episode, we're going to go through the 5 steps of building your own THRIVE TRIBE.
[3:00] Step 1 - Identifying the Current Status of Your Tribe
- Who are you in relation to others in your group?
- Who are the people you spend most of your time with? Do they share the same values as you?
- Do your friends hold you accountable?
[9:52] Step 2 - Cleaning House
- Any type of energy affects you, whether it's positive or negative
- Is this person challenging you to be better or are they being a downer?
- Your tribe should challenge you and support you to be a better YOU
- How do you feel after you spend time with that person?
- Natassia shares about when she was at her lowest, she also surrounded herself with people who were insecure
[16:58] Step 3 - Going Against The Grain
- Do people in your tribe try to discourage you when you 'go against the grain' or try to think differently?
- Surround yourself with people who are on a higher wave length than you
- Make sure the people in your tribe align with your values
[22:05] Step 4 - Get Yourself A Mentor
- Nina shares her experience with a life coach
- Don't get multiple coaches for the same thing
- This applies to many areas of your life, whether it's a mentor at your workplace or for your health
- We share how you can start a one on one mentoring relationship with someone
[28:30] Step 5- Raising Your Standards
- Look within and see if you need to change as well if you want to develop positive and meaningful relationships
- Energy is contagious - positive people don't want negative energy around them
- Stay. Away. From. Gossip.
- Build friendships with people who prioritize what's important to you, whether it's entrepreneurship, self-development or health.
[33:39] What is a Thrive Tribe?
[34:50] Recap of the 5 steps of building your Success Tribe
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