It’s either a HELL YES or a HELL NO!
It’s time to stop with the guilt. If you can’t commit wholeheartedly, say no. You need to feel good about that decision because you’re also helping that person by giving your truth!
This can be related to ANYTHING. You have to do what’s best for you, and it’s hard! Even I struggle with it.
No matter what anyone thinks about the decisions you are making, your life is yours and nobody else’s! They don’t have to live with your decisions. You are doing them a favor by saying no, when you feel you will not be able to give your most.
We have the ability to choose our lives, our paths, and our efforts we put in.
If it’s not worth it for you, it’s really not worth it for anyone either! You won’t be serving them at your best if you commit before you’re ready. If you say yes and become a half-asser, you’re doing the other person a disservice! When you say yes, commit wholeheartedly, and complete the task with everything you’ve got, THAT’S service.
Think of each “yes” as being a stepping stone toward your dream or bettering your life. Make sure you are only saying “yes” to things that bring you closer to that! If it’s not in line with your path, say no. The job wasn’t meant for you anyway, and it may fall in line with someone else’s path more.
Our mindset is HUGE in determining our future. Think of the energy you’re putting out into the world when you make a commitment. We have to control what we take in, so we’re able to keep our energy up, spirits lifted, and give our all to the things that matter MOST!
When we take the reins back in our lives, and STOP worrying about what others think of us, we are MORE fulfilled in life + our relationships. We truly believe we can conquer the world because we are always doing only those things we are passionate about! We can pour our hearts into them + in return, OUR cups will be filled to the brim!
