It is interesting what happens when we are willing to respond to a given situation not in the impulse of our wrath or anger, but in demonstration of a sense of self control. Kindness and gentleness always trump fear, anger, and wrath. The only way to not respond in the flesh is to not be one who walks by the flesh.......but by the Spirit. Thats where peace abides, that is where the victory lies, that is where the healing takes place. Enjoy.