Esther Wokoma, founder of EvolveLumina, a confidence amplifier coach and strategic engineering and operations leader with 18+ years in the energy sector, argues many people don't lack clarity but lack alignment and self-trust, and explains how identity shapes decisions because people act in alignment with who they believe they are. She shares how she helps teens and women overcome fear, external expectations, hesitation, and self-doubt by reinforcing their uniqueness and value, and teaches her 3C framework—clarity, confidence, courage—supported by a RISE process (review, identify, step forward, expand). She emphasizes consistency, small repeated actions, and not waiting to feel ready, and highlights her 31-day confidence journal inspired by conversations with her teen daughter.
Timestamps:
00:00 Welcome and Topic Setup
01:47 Meet Esther Wokoma
02:17 Clarity vs Alignment
03:31 Identity Drives Action
04:52 Coaching Teen Identity
06:41 Helping Women Self Trust
07:58 Three C Framework
09:28 From Corporate to Coaching
14:20 Teens Sweet Spot
17:40 Stop Overthinking Start Acting
18:53 Consistency Builds Confidence
21:32 Confidence Journal and Joy
25:24 Connect and Wrap Up
Get In Touch:
If you're interested in connecting with Esther Wokoma, you can reach her via Instagram (https://www.instagram.com/evolvelumina), via Facebook(https://www.facebook.com/esther.wokoma), or via her LinkedIn (https://www.linkedin.com/in/esther-wokoma/).
Her LinkTree: https://linktr.ee/estherwokoma
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