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Episode 480 Practicing a Relentless Empathy, w/ Dr. Brian Piccolo
Host: Brian Miller, PCC
Guest: Dr. Brian Piccolo
Date: August 28th, 2025

In this episode, Brian interviews Dr. Brian Piccolo, author of Relentless Empathy. They discuss the transformative power of empathy in relationships, ministry, and everyday life. Dr. Piccolo shares personal stories from his marriage, ministry, and family that illustrate how empathy—understood as connecting, understanding, relating, and empowering—can heal, restore, and deepen human connection.

Key Highlights

• Kobe Bryant's influence: A quote from Bryant about regretting not having more empathy inspired Piccolo to research the concept in depth, discovering empathy's relatively new place in language and culture.

• The C.U.R.E. model of empathy: Connect, Understand, Relate, Empower—Piccolo's framework for applying empathy in practical, everyday settings.

• Biblical grounding: Scripture passages such as Hebrews 10:24, Philippians 2:4, and Romans 12:15 reinforce the call to empathy as central to discipleship and relational wholeness.

• Personal stories of transformation: Piccolo recounts connecting with his suicidal father through empathy, and how listening, mirroring emotions, and meeting needs can restore purpose and hope.

Takeaways

• Empathy is an action: It goes beyond feelings of pity or sympathy to actively connect, listen, and respond to others' needs.

• Questions equal love: Asking thoughtful questions communicates care and often does more good than offering advice or solutions.

• Empathy restores relationships: Whether in marriage, ministry, or family, practicing empathy opens doors to healing and deeper connection.

• Biblical call to empathy: Loving our neighbor as ourselves requires taking genuine interest in others' lives, needs, and emotions.