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Secure attachment is a buzz word in the relationship coaching world, but how do we create it? Why do some relationships fizzle out while others last a lifetime? 

In the latest episode of the SSLP Podcast, I interview transformational relationship mentor Dr. Gary Salyer. For the last decade, Dr. Salyer has helped singles and couples release old pain and learn the skills to create secure love. He explains that it's about learning how to slow down and attune to each other emotionally, not just jump into problem-solving before you feel like you're on the same team. 

In our in-depth interview, Gary shares:

What are the feelings that any couple must make sure they experience with each other to make their love last?

What builds or destroys trust?

What is the importance of noticing the 'six second moments' in a relationship?

Why feelings need to be addressed before issues can be solved

What does it mean to be a safe haven for each other?

What's a “we-omiter” and why is that important if you want your love last?

Here's Gary's Free Gift: What if you could ask some of the world’s leading experts how to find lasting love? Dr. Gary Salyer, author of Safe to Love Again: How to Release the Pain of Past Relationships and Create the Love You Deserve - shares the teachings of the best of the best including his own groundbreaking work - to help you find the love you deserve. These four to five-minute videos will introduce you to ways to find a relationship and keep it.  And, if you are already coupled, you will learn ways to fall in love all over again with your partner.  Please go to https://garysalyer.com/loveguide to sign up for this life changing video series.

Gary also has an online course and a book. Here are the links for that:

Open For Love: An online course that helps you release the pain of the past and create healthy love: https://garysalyer.com/openforlove2024/

Safe to Love Again: How to Release the Pain of Past Relationships: Gary's ground-breaking book: https://amzn.to/3SyIW5m

More about Gary:

Dr. Gary Salyer is a transformational relationship mentor.  For the last decade, Dr. Salyer has been in private practice offering singles and couples heart-centered transformation so they can re-write the rules for love in their brains and create a love that lasts.  Dr. Gary is a featured expert on various celebrity TV and radio shows and is the author of the ground-breaking book, Safe to Love Again: How to Release the Pain of Past Relationships and Create the Love You Deserve.