In this powerful conversation, Cyndi and former police officer and Army veteran Chad Michael Bruckner dig deep into how trauma in law enforcement and toxic cultural norms impact officers, spouses, and families. Together they explore how moral injury and unhealed wounds can damage relationships — and what it takes to heal and reconnect at home.
In this episode, you'll learn:
How generational trauma and moral conflict affect law enforcement families
Why emotional suppression and "earning the right" culture create burnout and disconnection
What self-awareness looks like for first responders trying to reconnect with their spouses
The real impact of trauma on children — and how to build resilience and safety
Steps to rebuild emotional balance and courage in your relationship
Hosted by Cyndi Doyle, licensed professional counselor supervisor, retired police spouse, and author of Hold the Line, this podcast helps first responder couples protect their relationships and thrive together.
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00:00 – Intro: Meet Chad Michael Bruckner
03:00 – Generational trauma and childhood impact
07:00 – Understanding ACEs and moral injury
12:00 – The cost of silence and family disconnection
20:00 – Healing, parenting, and emotional safety
30:00 – Courageous cultures and future change
42:00 – Coaching, connection, and closing insights
