In this episode, Cyndi sits down with Allison Uribe, chaplain, speaker, and author of Because I'm Suitable and Cuffs and Coffee. Allison opens up about the struggles she and her husband faced early in their law enforcement marriage and how faith, perseverance, and intentional choices transformed their relationship. She shares the story of founding Wives on Duty Ministries and how her work now extends to spouses, children, and families of officers nationwide.
Short Episode Summary (Audience Benefits):
What you'll learn in this conversation:
Why law enforcement marriages feel so different from civilian ones
How hypervigilance and emotional disconnection impact police family life
The turning point that shifted Allison's marriage from almost over to thriving
How Wives on Duty Ministries and Kids on Duty are supporting families of officers today
Encouragement for spouses who feel alone in the struggle
I'm Cyndi Doyle, licensed professional counselor supervisor, retired police wife, author of Hold the Line, and founder of Code4Couples®. I help first responder couples build stronger relationships and navigate the unique challenges of law enforcement life.
(free resource/book):
📖 Grab your copy of Hold the Line: Protecting Your Law Enforcement Relationship → https://www.amazon.com/Hold-Line-Protecting-Enforcement-Relationship-ebook/dp/B08TPRTY9G#customerReviews
Featured Guest Book Link:
☕ Explore Allison Uribe's devotional Cuffs & Coffee → https://www.amazon.com/Cuffs-Coffee-Devotional-Wives-Enforcement/dp/154237195
(speaking/booking):
🎤 Book Cyndi for training, workshops, or keynotes → https://code4couples.com/training/
00:00 – Welcome & intro with Cyndi
02:00 – Allison's story: near divorce and turning to faith
07:30 – Founding Wives on Duty Ministries
15:00 – What changed in Allison's marriage
22:00 – Law enforcement family life challenges
30:00 – Support for kids of officers (Kids on Duty)
40:00 – Allison's advice for police spouses
46:00 – Closing & resources
