💬 How do you keep love strong when the job gets heavy? In this heartfelt conversation, Brett and Danielle Koss share how they built deep trust and emotional connection over 26 years of marriage through the ups and downs of law enforcement life.
What You'll Learn:
How vulnerability and trust protect your marriage in police culture
The impact of shift work, trauma, and emotional shutdown — and how to reconnect
Simple habits to stay close as a first responder couple
Why small moments matter more than big gestures
How faith and shared purpose create long-term resilience
Cyndi Doyle, LEO wife, licensed professional counselor supervisor, and author of Hold the Line, helps first responder couples strengthen connection and resilience. Through the Code4Couples® podcast, she bridges the gap between service and relationships.
👉 Hold the Line: Protecting Your Law Enforcement Relationship → https://www.amazon.com/Hold-Line-Protecting-Enforcement-Relationship-ebook/dp/B08TPRTY9G#customerReviews
🎤 Speaking / Training:
Book Cyndi for workshops, keynotes, or department training → https://code4couples.com/training/
00:00 Intro – Meet Brett & Danielle
02:00 How they met and built connection
07:00 The impact of emotional shutdown on marriage
12:00 Building trust and faith through trauma
22:00 Prioritizing your marriage over the badge
33:00 Tips for couples to reconnect after hard calls
39:00 Closing thoughts and encouragement
