So much of what we learn in our families growing up and through cultural norms is that the only way to teach our children the "right" way of doing anything is to bring in some pain. Think about it. When we give a consequence or we punish, we're bringing in some pain to "help" someone learn a lesson. It may bring about a temporary behavior change, but what is happening to our relationship?
Today is Time-in Tuesday and we're talking about the things we need to do to shift the way we look at relationships to support the healing that is waiting to happen.
