If you want to level up your life, you have to set the bar high.
But when you raise your standards, you run the risk of being disappointed when others don’t live up to those expectations.
So, how do you challenge yourself and the people you’re leading to aim high—without letting it steal your joy if they fall short?
On this episode of Destined to Be, we’re exploring Tony Robbins’ idea that if you want to change your life, you have to raise your standards. We explain how you teach people how to treat you based on what you’re willing to tolerate and discuss how to make decisions based on where you want to go and then build your standards around that vision.
We weigh in on why you don’t have to feel bad for refusing to accept less than you deserve, describing how to set boundaries based on the avatar you have defined for that particular area of your life. Listen in for insight around what to do when people fail to meet your expectations and learn how to accept people for who they are—without apologizing for your own high standards.
The definition of a standard as a level of quality used as a measure to compare
How most people do the minimum to get by rather than living to their potential
Why changing your life begins with raising your standards
How you teach people how to treat you based on what you’re willing to tolerate
How to make decisions based on where you want to go and build your standards around that vision
Why you don’t have to feel bad for refusing to accept less than you deserve
The value in building an avatar for each area of your life
How turning your SHOULD into a MUST allows you to take control of your quality of life
What to do when people don’t meet your expectations
How to accept people for who they are without apologizing for your own high standards
