In this episode, we welcome special guest Kisha Wallace-Brown from Procore Technologies, to discuss mentoring relationships, personal growth, and building a circle of influence. Below are the key points and notes from the conversation:
Introduction to Mentoring Relationships
The importance of recognizing the potential in others and encouraging their growth
Characteristics of a Good Mentor
Someone who sees your potential and "holds up a mirror" to your strengths
Provides guidance, encouragement, and accountability
Asks challenging questions and pushes you to grow
Key Advice for Personal and Professional Growth
"Stand tall" - Take up space, don't shrink yourself to accommodate others
Recognize your unique value and don't try to be accessible to everyone
Challenge imposter syndrome and step into your professional identity
Building Enduring Connections
Time and consistency are crucial for developing trust
Create a psychologically safe space in relationships
Embrace core values: openness, ownership, and optimism
Tips for Finding or Becoming a Mentor
For mentees: Be clear about your intentions and expectations
For mentors: Ensure you have the bandwidth and clarify the level of engagement
Establish mutual respect and trust
Be prepared to give and receive critical feedback respectfully
The Circle of Influence Concept
Building a personal board of directors to support professional growth
Selecting individuals who champion your success and help uncover your brilliance
