Most people do not procrastinate because they are lazy or unmotivated. They procrastinate because something feels heavy beneath the surface. In this episode of the Dr. CK Bray show, Dr. Bray unpacks why putting things off is often a form of self-protection rather than self-sabotage. He explores what is really happening in the brain when you avoid starting even the things that matter most and why more discipline is rarely the answer. If you have ever wondered why you know what to do but still struggle to begin this conversation is for you.
This episode presents a more compassionate and practical approach to understanding procrastination. You will learn how emotional weight, uncertainty, and self-pressure can quietly stall progress and discover what actually helps the brain feel safe enough to move forward. Instead of fighting yourself or waiting for motivation, you will learn simple ways to lower friction, reduce overwhelm, and start where you are. Procrastination is not a flaw to fix. It is a signal to listen to. And when you do, progress often follows more naturally than you expect.
Alice Boyes, HBR May-June 2022
Quotes by Dr. Bray
"Procrastination doesn't mean that something is wrong with you. It doesn't mean that you need to change."
"Strong habits reduce our need for self-control because those habits just kick in."
"We tend to avoid tasks that stir up negative emotions, and avoidance is a major driver of procrastination."
"Accurately identifying your emotions—what we call emotional granularity—helps you manage them."
