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How much of what you believe about money, success, and parenting is actually true, and how much is just where and when you happened to grow up?

This week's episode digs into the uncomfortable questions we rarely ask ourselves about our own blind spots, and gives you a practical filter to sort values worth protecting from scripts worth questioning.

I share stories about the gap between what we think we know and what we've actually experienced. From parents struggling to accept their kids' different paths to the life transitions that revealed how little we understood, this episode is about getting honest with ourselves without getting paralyzed by second-guessing.

This week, when you feel a strong "should" about money or your kids, ask yourself: is this my value, or someone else's script? Use the "says who?" test to check whether your certainty is based on what actually matters to your family, or on something you inherited without realizing it.

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Resources Featured in This Episode:

Not All Struggles Are Due to Laziness

Why Your Goals Keep Failing

Why "Just Waiting" Is Holding You Back in Life and Finance