I'm exploring now. I am exploring sex and love.
First of all, I would need diverse resources for this research, but I am very concerned about social distancing and the pandemic…, and frankly speaking, I don’t like wearing facial masks.
So I don't want to walk out for the resource! I don't want to meet people around at the moment! Then what can I do? What can I do to get enough data for my research? Only on the internet?
On which websites can I get content on “sex & love” online? Are those contents obscene? Will they distort my thoughts and personality? I am not sure.
Before writing, please refer to what other people have done...
1. Literature review
Search results for "Porn" or related words: porn websites, live-show, video chats, erotic novels and animations, viral advertisements.
YouTubers
1Gsme0104: Sexual interests, Sexual issues, Sex Education, Sex Questions and Answers
https://www.youtube.com/channel/UCwQfCQEqAokt9k_eT853cfg
Ms Jojo: Master of Sexology, Sex Educator, Sex Healer, Sex Quiz
https://www.youtube.com/c/%E7%86%9F%E5%A5%B3%E5%95%BE%E5%95%BEMsJojo
TVBS: Professionals of Sex knowledge, Sexual Response, Sexual Function…https://www.youtube.com/channel/UC1Pi24hwm03pmN5k0UY8hEA
Several male doctors: sexual function, sexual hygiene, sexual health…etc.
2. Problematic
Q1. I feel it so weird that why are there simply female YouTubers discussing sex details, especially those concerning the sex of males? How obscene these YouTubers may be in public opinion? Are they preventing people from the current gender and marriage markets? Aren’t they afraid of distorting their own characters and personalities?
Q2. I can only transfer concepts of “sex, sexual desire, sexual impulse” in an artistic way and try very hard to convince myself "Hey! These things are normal! Sex happens because people have love ❤️ ."
Liar. There is nothing that matters to love when I secretly watch porn at midnight. I know very well that I just want to awaken my sexual tension, call for physical soothing, and reach my sexual relief. So how is sex connected to love?
Q3. Sex education is very important, very important, very important. I put emphasis on "education". What do we expect after this education? Sexual hygiene, safety, and health?Getting familiar with sex organs, sexual function, sexual response? Well well…Sex is just an awareness or pure knowledge, why do we always relate it to love?
Q4. There is an ambiguity in some discussions of sexuality. When we mention sexual behaviors, do we include sexual activities for all sexual identities, like as homosexuals, bisexuals, pansexuals, or only heterosexuals? In short, are these discussions about sex appropriate for people of all sexual orientations?
3. Research methods
Data collection: Keyword searchings, erotic contents filtering.
Research method: Reason my thoughts to find common senses between sex and love.
Data collected. Next step? Analyze and discuss…
