Almost every client I work with feels they lack confidence. Success and confidence are interconnected, and when we look at what the most successful people have in common, they're all confident!
When we identify markers for success, we find ways to build confidence.
First, though, there are two confidence myths that we need to break apart. Some believe they will find confidence once success is achieved when actually confidence leads to success. When you believe in yourself, you're willing to take risks, you believe you are capable of achieving a goal, and you continue to expand and grow beyond yourself. Confidence leads to success.
Most people believe they have to know it all and have every step figured out before they get started. That does not lead to success. That just leads to waiting and hoping that you have all the bits figured. The way to get over the overwhelm and the confusion is to simply just take the first action. And then as soon as you do that, inevitably the next step will be clear. It's through messy action.
We all have desires and ideas of what success means to us. Every person is different. I want you to honor that. There's no standard for what success is for each person.
If you look at people who are super successful, they're most likely super confident. And so what do they all have in common? This is what I want to share with you, in order of impactful, to most impactful
1 - They believe in themselves when no one else is around them.
2 - Confident people bet on themselves.
3 - Knowing when to receive help
4 - Confident people admit that they make mistakes.
5 - Confident people don't expect instant results, but they know the results will come no matter what.
6 - Confident people dream big
7 - Trust in your process and the way you do things.
8 - Don't let setbacks and challenges get in their way of where they're going,
9 - Confident people are expressive.
10 - Look at how far you have come instead of how far you have yet to go.
"Look in the rear view mirror from where you were to where you are today, that's looking at progress! Your confidence skyrockets when you look at progress."
We all have desires and ideas of what success means to us. Every person is different. I want you to honor that. There's no standard for what success is for each person.
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