Guiding Question:
What should Christians do when they have a dispute with another believer—and how does our response reflect our spiritual maturity?
Summary:
Robert Lewis addresses the growing tendency, both culturally and within the church, to resolve disputes through lawsuits rather than biblical reconciliation. Drawing from 1 Corinthians 6, he critiques the Corinthian church’s behavior—suing fellow believers before secular courts—and parallels it with modern America’s litigious spirit. The issue isn’t legal rights, he explains, but spiritual priorities and witness.
Paul’s rebuke in 1 Corinthians centers on the fact that believers, destined to judge the world and even angels in the coming Kingdom, are settling minor disputes before unbelievers. Robert emphasizes that real-world spirituality demands a higher, kingdom-minded response.
He presents three options for handling legitimate disputes among believers:
Court litigation with shame – A believer sues another, damaging relationships and the church’s witness.
Church arbitration with wisdom – Mature, trained believers help mediate and resolve conflict honorably within the church.
Personal resignation with loss – Willingly taking the loss to uphold the unity of the body and honor Christ.
Robert carefully distinguishes between legitimate disputes and criminal or unrepentant sin. He clarifies that issues like fraud or abuse may require legal action and should not be shielded by misapplying this passage.
He closes by urging listeners to commit: before ever thinking of court, reach out to the church and seek help from trained peacemakers. Not only is this biblical—it’s a path to preserving relationships, protecting the church’s integrity, and experiencing the abundance Christ offers.
Key Takeaways:
Suing fellow believers over legitimate disputes brings shame and dishonors Christ.
The church should be the first place we seek resolution through wise arbitration.
Sometimes, spiritual maturity calls us to willingly take a loss for the sake of unity.
Criminal actions or unrepentant sin are not covered by this passage and may require legal recourse.
Practicing real-world spirituality means honoring Christ even in conflict.
Scripture References:
1 Corinthians 6:1–10 (lawsuits among believers)
Daniel 7:27 (saints ruling with Christ)
Matthew 19:28 (disciples judging the tribes)
Revelation 20:4 (saints reign with Christ)
Matthew 5:40 (give your cloak also)
Galatians 6:7–8 (sowing and reaping)
Sermon 3/21/2004
