December 25, 2025
Allowing with Grace When the Day Doesn’t Match the Expectation.
This Kitchen Talk episode continues Week One of the Yule season, exploring Allowing with Grace through the lens of expectation, especially on days that carry meaning, memory, or pressure to feel a certain way.
Holidays often arrive layered with images of how things are supposed to look or feel. When reality doesn’t match those expectations, many of us turn disappointment inward, confusing mismatch with personal failure.
In this episode, we talk honestly about what it means to practice good sportsmanship with life when the day doesn’t deliver what we imagined.
Rather than fixing, reframing, or forcing meaning, listeners are invited to stay present with the day they’re actually living without self-judgment or performance.
This reflection offers a gentle reorientation of success: not feeling the “right” thing, but staying in relationship with ourselves when expectation and reality diverge.
Listeners are invited to continue walking this thirteen-week season of personal catabasis in shared reflection and lived experience at CrowsCupboard.com.
The practice continues.