In the post-divorce season, it's easy to think spiritual danger only comes from toxic people or bad relationships.
But Scripture tells us something deeper:
Every participation gives access.
Scrolling his social media at midnight. Replaying old arguments in your head. Entertaining men who lack spiritual maturity. Refusing help because accepting it feels like weakness.
These aren't just bad habits. They're unlocked doors the enemy walks right through.
In this episode, I'm breaking down:
✅ Why participation = access to your spirit
✅ How The Chaser gives access through compromise, over-functioning, and desperation
✅ How The Cutoff gives access through pride, bitterness, and self-sufficiency
✅ What Ephesians 4 teaches about not giving the devil a foothold
✅ The difference between conviction (clarity from God) and confliction (confusion from the enemy)
✅ Practical examples for discerning what to engage with — and what to walk away from
If you're exhausted from being triggered, spiraling every time he texts, or feeling emotionally exposed — OR if you've built walls so high that even God can't get through — this episode gives you a framework for wisdom that protects without hardening your heart.
🎧 LISTEN TO THESE NEXT:
📌 Episode 64: Make Yourself at Home — Why abiding with God feels lonely (and what that actually reveals)
📌 Episode 63: Preparing Your Heart as The Bride of Christ
💡 Pro tip: These three episodes build on each other — binge them for the full transformation!
✨ READY TO APPLY THIS WITH SUPPORT?
I have limited spots in Selah Healing — my 12-week private coaching experience for divorced Christian women ready to rebuild their identity, guard their spirit, and walk in godly wisdom.
👉 Apply here: coachkatieanne.com/call
📖 SCRIPTURE REFERENCES:
Proverbs 4:23 | Ephesians 4:1-3, 27, 31 | Ephesians 5:1-2, 17 | Proverbs 14:1, 5 | James 1:5 | 1 Corinthians 14:33
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Keywords: spiritual boundaries, post-divorce healing, conviction vs confliction, participation equals access, Ephesians 4, Christian coaching, divorced women, biblical wisdom, spiritual warfare, guarding your heart
