What If You’re Not Failing… You’re Just Dysregulated?
What if the exhaustion, irritability, and emotional fog you’re feeling isn’t a personal flaw—but a nervous system asking for support?
In this episode, Jessica and Kelly explore something we don’t talk about enough: the difference between regulating yourself and trying to fix yourself.
Because in a world that constantly tells us to optimize, improve, and power through… sometimes the bravest thing we can do is pause and reset.
This conversation is compassionate, practical, and deeply grounding—especially if you’ve been feeling emotionally fatigued or overstimulated.
✨ Why resetting your nervous system is foundational for emotional health
✨ The subtle signs of dysregulation (hint: it’s not just panic)
✨ Why regulation is about safety—not self-improvement
✨ Micro-resets that don’t require a life overhaul
✨ Breathing techniques that signal calm to your body
✨ Simple grounding exercises to reconnect with yourself
✨ Environmental shifts that create instant cues of safety
✨ Mental and emotional resets for moments of overwhelm
✨ “Emergency” techniques for when emotions spike
✨ Reframing self-care as kindness—not luxury
You’ll walk away with simple, doable resets you can use today:
Chapters
00:00 Introduction to Podcasting and Captivate
00:26 Resetting the Nervous System
03:14 Understanding Regulation vs. Fixing
06:00 Micro Resets for Daily Life
08:57 Breath and Body Resets
11:39 Environmental and Mental Resets
14:34 Emergency Reset Techniques
17:11 Conclusion and Next Steps
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