In this episode of 'Clinically Awkward,' host Alyssa Zimmerman welcomes sex therapist Samia Kahn for an in-depth and candid conversation about the intersection of sexuality and neurodivergence. They discuss societal pressures, personal experiences, and the unique challenges faced by neurodivergent individuals in understanding and expressing their sexuality. Listeners will learn about Samia's background, both professionally and personally, as an ADHD and late-diagnosed autistic individual. The episode explores cultural perspectives on sex, the impact of media, and the importance of special interests in the lives of neurodivergent women. Together, Alyssa and Samia provide a space for radically honest oversharing, reflecting on everything from early sexual awakenings to the dichotomy between societal expectations and personal needs. This episode highlights that all special interests, including the seemingly taboo, are valid and worth celebrating.
01:41 Guest Introduction: Sex Therapist Samia Kahn
01:59 Samia's Journey into Sex Therapy
02:53 Neurodivergence and Diagnosis
03:51 Early Sexual Awareness and Cultural Perspectives
06:13 Sex Education and Personal Experiences
09:17 Fascination with Butts and Sexuality
11:07 Pregnancy, Trauma, and the Body
13:14 Societal Expectations and Neurodivergence
21:53 Sexuality, Shame, and Pop Culture
25:33 Neurodivergence, Bullying, and Social Dynamics
27:26 Sexual Precocity and Relational Trauma
28:28 Challenges in Dating and Relationships
29:35 Misdiagnosis and Neurodivergent Traits
29:51 Sensory Needs and Coping Mechanisms
30:24 Dating Challenges and Labels
31:42 Neurodivergence and Sexuality
37:29 Media Influence on Sexual Norms
45:13 Alcohol and Neurodivergent Coping
50:34 College Experiences and Impulse Control
55:54 Conclusion and Resources
