Description

In this episode of Today Matters, Coach Steve Pinkston tackles one of the biggest lies in modern sports and parenting: that protecting kids from pain builds confidence. The truth? It does the opposite. When athletes are shielded from struggle, they learn to fear it. Coach Steve breaks down the “confidence trap” — why real confidence must be earned through competence — and how parents, coaches, and athletes can stop confusing comfort with courage.

Today’s Action Step: 

• Notice when you’re rescuing.
• Redefine success.
• Let discomfort do its work.

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Today Matters is your 2–4 minute daily boost of motivation for athletes, parents, and coaches. Hosted by Coach Steve Pinkston, each episode delivers a simple mental performance strategy to help you win the day.

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