In this conversation, Georgia shares her personal journey of overcoming divorce, battling cancer, and rebuilding her life. She provides practical insights on how to grieve losses, embrace a new identity in Christ, and move toward healing.
Whether you are personally experiencing divorce or supporting a loved one through it, this episode is packed with hope, wisdom, and biblical truth. Subscribe for more insights at the intersection of psychology and Christianity!
Chapters:
00:00 - Welcome & Introduction
01:06 - Meet Georgia Shaffer: Author, Psychologist, & Coach
02:48 - Why Georgia is Passionate About Helping the Divorced
04:39 - The Stigma of Divorce in the Church
06:02 - The Deep Grief of Divorce
10:23 - Why Listing Your Losses Can Help You Heal
13:32 - The Lies That Keep People Stuck
14:51 - Healing Doesn’t Come from the Person Who Hurt You
19:58 - The Complexity of Trust After Betrayal
24:10 - How Long Does It Take to Rebuild Trust?
29:33 - What NOT to Do in "Frantic Mode"
32:41 - The Dangers of Love Bombing & Manipulation
34:14 - How to Find Support & Community After Divorce
37:51 - Georgia’s Books & Rebuild After Divorce Membership
39:00 - Closing Thoughts
🎯 Key Takeaways:
✔️ Divorce comes with layers of grief—beyond losing a spouse, it includes shattered dreams and unexpected losses.
✔️ Healing takes time, and expecting instant closure can lead to more pain.
✔️ Your identity is in Christ, not in your divorce.
✔️ Trust isn’t rebuilt overnight—it requires consistent trustworthiness over time.
✔️ Community is essential for healing, and support groups like Rebuild After Divorce provide life-giving encouragement.
Resources Mentioned:
🔗 Rebuild After Divorce Membership: GeorgiaShaffer.com/rebuildmembership
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