Description

What if feeling lost is exactly where you're meant to start?

In this episode of Unlock Your Blocks, Elyssa Smith sits down with Hilary Spiritos, a pathfinding coach who specializes in helping young adults navigate major life transitions. Together, they explore how self-sabotage, inner child work, and societal expectations shape the post-high school journey. Hilary shares how courage, safety, and deep self-awareness can help young people discover their authentic direction—and why it’s okay not to have it all figured out.

If you're in a season of change or supporting someone who is, this conversation offers wisdom, warmth, and grounded guidance.

✅ What You’ll Learn:

• Why life transitions can trigger fear, self-doubt, and resistance

• The power of coaching in helping young adults find clarity

• How external expectations and inner beliefs fuel self-sabotage

• Why connecting with the inner child is key to growth

• The importance of building internal safety before making big decisions

• How small acts of courage create momentum

• Ways to honor your desires in the face of societal pressure

• Why you’re not alone in feeling uncertain

🕒 Episode Chapters:
00:00 – Navigating Life Transitions
02:25 – The Role of a Pathfinding Coach
07:42 – Overcoming Self-Sabotage and Limiting Beliefs
11:45 – Finding Your Authentic Path
16:34 – Understanding the Inner Child
22:02 – Building Safety and Courage
30:12 – First Steps Towards Freedom

📲 Connect with Elyssa for More Inspiration:
📸 Instagram: @elyssacsmith
👥 Facebook Group: The Stressless Lounge

Connect with Hilary:

Website: https://batouttahell.net/

TikTok/Instagram: @bat.outta_hell

Calendly: https://calendly.com/batouttahell