My guest today is Daniel Priestley. Daniel Priestley is the author of four best-selling books Key Person of Influence, Entrepreneur Revolution, Oversubscribed and 24 Assets.
Daniel is a successful entrepreneur who's built and sold businesses in Australia, Singapore, and the UK. He's the co-founder of Dent Global, one of the world's top business accelerators for entrepreneurs and leaders to stand out and scale up.
With offices in London, Sydney and Toronto Dent's accelerator programs have global reach. Endorsed by the Institute of Leadership and Management, over 500 entrepreneurs and leaders, each year participate globally in developing their businesses with the support of high net worth mentors.
He's named in the Top 10 Business Advisors in the UK by Enterprise Nation and one of the top 25 entrepreneurs in London in the Smith & Williamson Power 100 Awards.
We’ve all been there, chatting with a prospect, not sure if they’re on the fence or about to leap in with both feet. So, how do you know when someone is actually interested in your offer and it’s time to move in for the sale? That’s where buying signals come in.
Simply put, buying signals are clues, verbal, physical, or written, that show your prospect is seriously considering making a purchase. Missing these signals can mean walking away empty-handed, while spotting them lets you nudge the conversation toward a decision with confidence.
Buying signals generally fall into three buckets:
Questions: When a client starts asking about things like delivery times, payment options, or how the service works behind the scenes, you’re onto something. These questions aren’t just polite chit-chat, they’re windows into their intent and interest. For example:
Statements: Listen for comments that show the person is picturing themselves as an owner or user. If you hear things like “I could really see this freeing up my Friday afternoons,” or “This would fit right near the entrance,” they’re mentally moving forwards. Even simple affirmations, “Yes, that makes sense,” or “That’s what I need”, can be a green light.
Non-Verbal Actions: Body language often says more than words. When someone leans in, nods, takes notes, or keeps revisiting a specific feature, those are classic signals. People in deep consideration mode might stroke their chin (classic!), tilt their head, or even doodle with their pen while thinking.
Recognizing and acting when these buying signals pop up separates the order-takers from the rainmakers. When your prospect starts showing signs, through their words, their body language, or their questions, that’s your cue to help them make a decision, rather than delivering yet another feature dump.
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Let’s talk about something that’s often hiding in plain sight, those statements your prospects make that reveal they’re ready to buy, or at least leaning eagerly in that direction. Instead of relying solely on your super-sleuth sales instincts, tune your ear to the subtle cues your prospect drops into conversation.
You'll often hear phrases that shift from passive interest to active ownership: things like, “When I use this system, I’ll be able to process items more quickly,” or, “I think we’d get the best results if the machine was installed by the entrance.” Suddenly, they’re picturing themselves using your product. That's gold dust.
Other signs are even more straightforward, repeating your points back to you, nodding along, tossing in affirmations like “yes,” “right,” or “that’s exactly what we need.” Sometimes, they loop back to revisit a detail or ask to compare their options one more time, which usually means they’re narrowing things down in their mind.
If you catch someone weighing alternatives or rephrasing the outcomes after adopting your solution, you’re probably closer to a handshake than you think. So, keep an ear out; these little nuggets tell you that the prospect isn’t just interested, they’re picturing a future as your customer.
If you’re wondering how to spot genuine interest versus polite curiosity, pay attention to the kinds of questions a potential customer asks. True buying signals typically show up when someone starts bridging the gap between consideration and action. Here are some stellar examples:
Spotting these signals means you’re not just chatting, you’re helping someone make a decision. That’s where real momentum begins.
So, how do you know when someone’s genuinely warming up to your offer? Listen carefully, often, customers give away clear hints they're seriously thinking about making a purchase. Here are a few tell-tale signs to watch (or rather, hear) out for:
Some prospects may also circle back to important points more than once, signaling they’re double-checking before making the leap.
Recognizing these genuine buying signals can give you the confidence to guide the conversation naturally toward closing, without being pushy or overly “salesy.”
Ever noticed how the best customers start asking questions? That’s a sure sign they’re warming up and leaning into your offer, it’s the green light that signals genuine buying interest.
Here are a few ways those questions show up:
Delivery and Logistics: When someone asks, “How soon could we get started?” or “What’s the usual delivery timeframe?” it’s rarely idle curiosity. They’re picturing your product or service in their world, and that means they’re moving from browsing to seriously considering a purchase.
Pricing Queries: If you hear “How much does it cost?” or “Is there a payment plan available?” that’s another strong signal. Sure, there may still be objections to handle, maybe they need reassurance on value, but pricing questions mean you’ve piqued their interest.
Clarification Requests: Sometimes prospects dig into the details, asking about specs, features, or how something works. These aren’t time-wasters; they’re double-checking that your solution truly fits their needs.
Seeking Recommendations: When someone says, “Which package do you think is best for me?” or “What would work best in our case?”, they’re inviting you into their decision process. They’re moving out of research mode and closer to closing the deal.
Bottom line: The quality of your prospect’s questions tells you how far along they are in their buying journey. Questions rooted in logistics, specific needs, or recommendations are your cue to guide them confidently toward a yes.
So, what should you actually look out for when a prospect is interested? Buying signals typically fall into three buckets:
Once you spot these signals, it’s your moment to step up and guide the conversation forward, helping your prospect make the leap from curious to committed.
One of the most powerful things you can do in a sales conversation is to tune into what’s not being said. Non-verbal cues often speak louder than words, and skilled salespeople know that a prospect’s body language can reveal their true level of interest.
Keep an eye out for these tell-tale signs:
Notice several of these in a conversation? That’s your cue to gently move things forward, try a soft close or simply ask if they’d like to take the next step. When you tune into these subtle signals, you’ll spot golden opportunities to progress the sale before the competition even picks up on what’s happening.
So, how can you really tell if a customer’s on the brink of buying, without them uttering a word? The secret’s in their body language.
Keep your eyes peeled for those moments when someone leans in during a conversation, or their head subtly nods as you talk about your offer, these aren’t just polite gestures; they’re green lights. A client who sits forward, maintains eye contact, or even tilts their head is usually signaling a genuine interest in what you’re saying.
Other tell-tale signs? Watch for people who begin to handle objects thoughtfully, a pen in the mouth, glasses twirled absentmindedly, or fingers tracing the edge of a notebook. These moves aren’t just fidgeting; they often show deep consideration and seriousness about the next step. You might also notice a shift in facial expressions, from neutral to more animated, or eyes widening slightly, a classic sign of curiosity or attraction to your proposal.
Of course, none of these signals guarantee a sale, but tuned-in salespeople treat them like gold dust. Over time, you’ll spot patterns in your own customers and know exactly when it’s time to ask for the close.
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