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In this episode of Inner peace, better health, host Sayan and Claudia Six, PhD—board-certified clinical sexologist, therapist, researcher, author, and two-time TEDx speaker—break down how to build real inner peace you can use daily. We cover presence over autopilot, connection over avoidance, and simple, research-backed practices (neuroplasticity, reframing, boundaries, and truth-telling) that move you from survival patterns to grounded living—without fluff. 

About the guest:

Claudia Six, PhD is a San Francisco–based clinical sexologist and relationship therapist with 30+ years helping individuals and couples cultivate presence, connection, and emotionally honest intimacy. Her work blends psychology, neuroscience, and practical tools to resolve stuck dynamics without shame or blame.

Key takeaways:

• Presence first. You can’t connect with a partner if you’re not present with yourself. Quiet time without devices builds awareness and capacity.

• Tolerate discomfort. Stop numbing (alcohol, scrolling, shopping). Sit with feelings; clarity emerges after the wave.

• Simple brain rewiring. Notice anticipatory negative thoughts and replace them with realistic, supportive ones. Neuroplasticity is trained repetition.

• Say it out loud. Suffering grows in silence. Speak truth in “I” language; you can refine later. Honesty reduces emotional charge and invites support.

• No one is broken. Problems are usually relational dynamics, not “bad people.” Explore family history, beliefs (“I’m not lovable,” “My needs don’t matter”), and ineffective habits.

• Communication is a skill. Everyone communicates; few do it effectively. Learn direct, respectful bids, reflective listening, and clear requests.

• When stuck, get help. Expert perspective reveals why your pairing made sense—and how it now traps you. Guidance accelerates change.

• Daily practice beats theory. Small rituals—breath before reacting, one gratitude, one boundary—compound into calm, connection, and agency.

Connect with the guest:

• Website (as shared in the episode): drsix.net

• Blog, resources, and chatbot available via the site; book a free consultation there.

• Active on major social platforms (see website for links).

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