Somewhere along the way, a lot of us with ADHD ended up in the passenger seat of our own lives — reacting, responding, hooking our wagon to someone else's prefrontal cortex — while the bus careens down the road with no one clearly at the wheel.
And then there's the battle with acceptance itself. For ADHD brains, that fight can quietly drain the very cognitive bandwidth we need most — spinning in the "what ifs", the "if onlys", the constant renegotiating with a reality that isn't going anywhere. It's one of the most expensive unwinnable fights we pick.
This week Cameron reads an article he wrote but never submitted — never been heard, until now — on what it actually means to take ownership of your ADHD. His argument: ownership is the ultimate gesture of acceptance. Not defeat. Not a label. A springboard.
The bus metaphor runs through the whole episode: what it means to stop lunging for the wheel, how to do an honest walk-around and check for dings and dents, why you'd want to enroll in bus driving school before taking on a metaphorical downtown Manhattan, and how to decide who gets to ride up front with you.
Cam's Equanimity Class in May
