Have you ever noticed yourself talking one way at work and another way with friends—and wondered which one is the real you? If you’re overthinking whether you’re adapting to be understood or disappearing to be accepted, this conversation will put language to what you’re carrying.
Darius Moore shares how growing up in a military family and moving between rural West Tennessee, Nashville, corporate rooms, and community spaces shaped the way he communicates—and why code switching can be both a burden and a bridge. We talk about identity shift, belonging, and the emotional load of “disarming” assumptions (especially in workplaces), plus how perspective and love can guide the way you show up without losing yourself.
In this episode, you’ll learn:
- How to notice when adaptation turns into people-pleasing
- Self-awareness cues for “performing” vs. connecting (and why it drives anxiety)
- Boundaries at work that protect your voice without shutting down
- How to hold mixed emotions about home, culture, and success with self-compassion
- Why words and tone shape identity—and how to find more clarity and peace of mind
- The hidden weight of always scanning a room (and how to let someone else carry it)
Come for the story; leave with grounded language for uncertainty, duality, and showing up with integrity in complex spaces.
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