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What if the moment that saved you started as a question you were afraid to ask?

Ten years ago, I wrote in a question about love, boundaries, and faith to a podcast called Ask Science Mike… and Rob Bell answered it. I didn’t know it then, but his response helped move me from people-pleasing to self-respect, from either/or thinking to both/and thinking—and it became one of the turning points that changed the direction of my life.

In this solo episode, I’m sharing the full context of what was happening behind the scenes at the time, reading the transcript of my original question and parts of Rob’s response (I don’t have the rights to air the original audio), and reflecting on the ripple effects that followed—on my relationships, my faith, my healing, and the full-circle moment of having Rob Bell on It’s Both.

If you’ve ever felt torn between being “loving” and having boundaries… or wondered if taking care of yourself makes you selfish… this one is for you.

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