Description

As a highly empathic and intuitive child, Melissa Kim Corter was captivated by the dark corners of basements and the unseen aspects of the psyche. That early fascination laid the foundation for decades of work exploring the shadow side of human experience. In this rich and layered conversation, Melissa joins host Nicky Yazbeck to discuss how to approach shadow work and how it can be reframed not as something negative, but as a powerful portal for healing and integration.

Melissa shares her unique lens on shadow work, rooted in traditional Jungian studies and brought to life through her book Apothecary for the Afflicted: Shadow Work for Invisible Wounds. Together, we explore the role of avoidance and disassociation, how nightmares and fairy tales can offer symbolic insight, and how tools like the darkness journal create a safe space to give voice to intense and untamed emotions.

We also talk about the duality of light and dark, how to stop pushing the shadow away, and why engaging it directly is key to no longer being ruled by it. Whether you’re a therapist, seeker, or simply curious, this episode offers creative, symbolic, and grounded ways to explore the parts of yourself often left in the dark.

Takeaways:

• Shadow work involves confronting uncomfortable truths about ourselves.
• Disassociation can manifest in seemingly positive behaviors.
• Curiosity is essential for understanding our shadows.
• The darkness journal allows for safe expression of difficult emotions.
• Fairy tales can help articulate and process our experiences.
• Personal stories have the power to heal and connect us.
• The transformation of trauma can lead to empowerment.
• Engaging with our shadows can illuminate our true selves.

Chapters

00:00 Navigating Grief and Mortality

20:36 Understanding Shadow Work

23:47 Avoidance and Disassociation

26:41 Tools for Shadow Work

29:42 The Darkness Journal

32:24 Transforming Darkness into Light

35:28 The Role of Fairy Tales

38:24 Dreams and Nightmares

41:30 The Impact of Personal Stories

44:18 Conclusion and Resources

57:46 OUTRO 

Connect with me:

https://nickyYyoga.com

https://www.youtube.com/@TheConnectedCommunity

support@nickyYyoga.com

Connect with Melissa:

https://www.melissacorter.com

https://www.instagram.com/melissakimcorter/

https://www.facebook.com/melissakcorter/

https://www.youtube.com/c/MelissaKimCorter

https://melissakimcorter.substack.com/

Keywords: shadow work, disassociation, fairy tales, personal stories, emotional healing, journaling, self-discovery, mental health, darkness journal, Jungian, Depth Psychology, grief, mortality, dreams, nightmares, transformation, self help