What do women actually want? It’s the question men have asked for centuries — and the one women have often been too afraid to answer honestly, or maybe don't even know the answer to.
In this episode, I dive deep into the inner tug-of-war between desire and people-pleasing, and how denying our deepest longings can leave us resentful, disconnected, and exhausted. I share my own marriage story — how my unhealed wounds collided with my husband’s, and how healing my nervous system helped me see him more clearly and invite him into his mature masculine.
We’ll explore:
Why desire is a God-led impulse, not something shameful.
What women actually crave in a partner (it’s not what you think).
The feminine longing to exhale, soften, and surrender.
The shadow side: testing, people-pleasing, and emasculation.
The truth behind the “Love & Respect” model.
A radical reframe of what both men and women truly need.
If you’re ready to do the inner work that heals marriages from the inside out, I’d love to walk alongside you: nicolegoffspeaks.com
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