In this episode of Secular Homeschool Revolution, host Ashley gets real about the difference between performative parenting and actual growth when it comes to gender and pronouns.
Let’s be honest..most of us didn’t grow up with this language. So yes, there will be mistakes. But guess what? That’s not the end of the world. What matters is how we handle them.
Ashley breaks down what toxic apologies sound like, how to model real accountability, and how to weave pronoun respect into your homeschool in natural, everyday ways. And if you’re still learning (and you should be), there’s a full list of books, Instagram follows, and resources to support both you and your kids.
This isn’t about being perfect.
It’s about showing up...with intention, curiosity, and respect.
🧠 Mentioned Resources Include:
They She He Me
What Are Your Words?
My Rainbow
@thegenderdoula, @queerkidstuff, @radicalcounselor
Genderspectrum.org & more
🎧 Listen now and start raising kids who respect identity like it’s second nature.
