Welcome to another solo episode of the Able to Care Podcast, hosted by Andy Baker. In this episode, we challenge the traditional mindset of “consequences” — a word that’s too often just punishment dressed up. Instead, Andy invites parents, carers, and teachers to explore purpose-driven, compassionate approaches to managing behaviour. Backed by restorative practices and neuroscience, this episode breaks down why connection, understanding, and growth matter far more than simply controlling behaviour.
Whether you’re working with children in a school, supporting adults in care, or raising your own family, this episode will give you practical, thought-provoking strategies to replace punishment with positive change.
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🛠️ Resources Mentioned
Andy’s book Targeting the Positive with Behaviours That Challenge
Carers Card UK — official site
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⭐ Three Key Messages
1️⃣ Consequences are not learning tools — punishment might stop behaviour short-term, but it rarely helps people grow.
2️⃣ Connection before correction — trust and understanding build long-lasting change.
3️⃣ Ask “why” instead of “how to stop” — curiosity helps unlock more positive and adaptive behaviour patterns.
⏰ Timestamps (Chapters)
00:00 — The myth of consequences
00:22 — Sponsor: Carers Card UK
01:42 — Purpose over punishment
03:10 — Restorative practices and neuroscience
05:05 — Positive vs negative punishment explained
08:00 — Connect before you correct
10:00 — Final reflections on building trust
13:45 — Like, comment, and share
🎧 Why Listen?
If you’re a parent, teacher, or carer who wants to move away from outdated, controlling approaches to behaviour, this episode will empower you with research-backed strategies to create positive change. Andy’s insights will challenge how you think about “discipline” and offer a framework to support healthier, happier, and more resilient relationships.
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