We teach more with our tone, facial expressions, and reactions than with any lesson plan. In this powerful solo episode, Andy Baker explores the concept of the hidden curriculum—the silent lessons we teach every day through our behaviour, body language, and boundaries.
Whether you're a parent, teacher, carer or support worker, you're constantly delivering messages—about safety, empathy, trust, and identity—without even realising it. So what are people really learning from you?
This episode will help you become more intentional about your presence and model the values you want to pass on.
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💡 Three Key Messages:
Behaviour is curriculum.
Every sigh, smile, or boundary teaches something. Children and adults alike copy what they see, not what they’re told.
Emotional safety is taught through presence.
Calm body language, empathy, and clear boundaries teach regulation, identity, and self-worth.
Reflecting on our own hidden lessons is essential.
Understanding what we unintentionally learned—and may still be teaching—helps break cycles and shape better futures.
⏱️ Episode Chapters:
00:00 – What is the hidden curriculum?
00:27 – Sponsor: Carers Card UK
01:47 – We teach with more than our words
02:36 – How stress, tone & facial expressions model behaviour
04:50 – Mirror neurons, empathy, and emotional contagion
06:30 – Auditing your tone and actions
07:54 – Subtle shaming: schools, police, and healthcare narratives
09:02 – Stigma, ageism, and unconscious bias
09:16 – Naming the learning out loud
09:38 – “Do you want a hug, help, or to be heard?”
10:30 – Aligning boundaries with compassion
11:07 – Emotional literacy and modelling empathy
11:59 – What hidden curriculum are we passing on as a team?
12:46 – Final thoughts: What are YOU teaching without knowing?
🎯 Why Listen to This Episode?
This episode is essential listening for anyone who works with or supports others—especially parents, teachers, carers, and leaders.
You’ll walk away with:
A deeper awareness of the emotional messages you send daily
Practical tools to model calm, empathy, and safety
Insight into how to reflect and adjust the unspoken lessons you teach
Whether you’re raising children or leading teams, the hidden curriculum you deliver shapes lives.
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