What is amends? How do we make amends? Talk is cheap. Actions speak louder than words. Actions speak straight from the heart. Actions are the words of our heart motives. Completing the amends step is a process. It is not like dropping a quick "I'm sorry" as if it was a "get out of jail free" card in the game of Monopoly. Amends is a process of things you can and cannot do. It should be guided by your Sponsor or 12 step leader. We do not get to decide how the amends process will go because the process takes two people to complete. It takes the one who hurt others and the ones who were hurt. Be patient!
Much Agape ev'body!
Shan, the Recovery Pastor
