You're Not Starting Over - You're Starting Aligned
Episode 57 - Spiritual Awakening Podcast
Starting over:
In this powerful episode, Shaz speaks directly to the woman who thinks her life ended when her relationship did. Whether it’s divorce, separation, or the heartbreak of losing a spouse, this message is for the woman staring at the ceiling at 2am wondering how she’ll survive, who she is now, and where her life goes from here.
Shaz explains why you're not “starting again from nothing” — you’re starting from wisdom, strength, and the deepest truth of who you really are. She unpacks the survival identities women build inside long-term relationships, how those identities fall away during breakdowns, and why the grief you feel is really the grief of letting go of the version of you who tolerated too much for far too long.
This episode guides you through the collapse of the old life, the stripping back of false identities, and the beginning of your spiritual and emotional rebirth. You’ll learn how relationship breakdowns ignite spiritual awakenings, how to reclaim your voice, how to stop abandoning yourself, and how to rise into the woman you were always meant to be.
✔ Why relationship breakdowns often trigger spiritual awakenings
✔ The myth of “starting over” and what actually happens internally
✔ The real reason you feel lost after a long-term relationship ends
✔ How survival identities are created — and how they dissolve
✔ Why you grieve the version of you who abandoned herself
✔ How to recognise the rebirth that is already unfolding
✔ What aligned living looks like in real life (the messy, honest version)
✔ Signs you’re becoming the grounded, powerful woman you were meant to be
✔ Why your next chapter is built on truth, self-worth, boundaries and clarity
✔ How to begin rebuilding your life on your terms — without guilt or fear
If this episode spoke to your soul, share it with a woman who’s rebuilding her life from the ground up. And if you’re ready to stop doing this alone and finally meet the woman you’re meant to become, Shine with Shaz is ready when you are. You don’t have to walk this chapter by yourself - there is a whole sisterhood waiting to rise with you.
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