In this episode, we sit down with author and speaker Tracy Harper to talk about identity, validation, and learning to live from God’s voice rather than the noise around us. Tracy shares the heart behind her book From Him, Not Them and offers wisdom for women—especially young Christian women—who are navigating faith, pressure, and purpose in a world full of competing voices.
In this conversation, we explore:
- What inspired Tracy to write From Him, Not Them and the personal journey behind the message
- The meaning of the title—and who “them” represents in our everyday lives
- Why so many young Christian women struggle with validation, even when they’ve grown up in church
- How Tracy vulnerably shares about her past struggle with an eating disorder that stemmed from a desire for control during a season of feeling unworthy.
- Subtle signs that we may be looking to people instead of God for identity, approval, or direction
- What Tracy calls “counterfeit guides” and how they quietly shape our decisions and self-worth
- How to discern the voice of the Holy Spirit amid emotions, fears, and outside influence
- Encouragement for the woman who feels like she has to earn her worth or prove her value
This episode is an invitation to pause, listen, and realign—learning to receive identity and direction from Him, not from the expectations or opinions of others.
