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Garth Heckman

The David Alliance

TDAgiantSlayer@Gmail.com 

Would you rather game: Would you rather put your hand in a blender with lemon juice or kneel on a drill bit in salt water? 

Would you rather have a billion dollars and be the fattest ugliest person in the world, or be poor the rest of your life but be absolutely ravishingly beautiful? 

Proverbs 15:16 Better is a little with the fear of the Lord
Than great treasure, and turmoil with the treasure.

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Better is a portion of vegetables where there is love,
Than a fattened ox served with hatred.

Proverbs 15:16–17 offers a profound "this is better than that" comparison, focusing on the relationship between material wealth, spiritual peace, and emotional health.

Here are the verses for reference:

16 Better is a little with the fear of the Lord than great treasure and trouble with it.

17 Better is a dinner of herbs where love is than a fattened ox and hatred with it.

The Philosophy of "Better Than"

These verses belong to a category of wisdom literature known as comparative proverbs. They don’t argue that being poor is inherently superior to being rich; rather, they argue that the quality of your inner life and relationships is the true multiplier of your happiness.

Verse 16: The Spiritual Math

"Better is a little with the fear of the Lord than great treasure and trouble with it.”

I had the profound privilege of working for some of the richest people in the world when I was just 18. They had it all, everything, there was no want in their life… and they were miserable! 

• The Component of Peace: The "fear of the Lord" in Proverbs refers to a deep reverence and alignment with divine wisdom. This creates a psychological and spiritual foundation of security.
• The Hidden Cost of Wealth: The "trouble" mentioned often refers to the anxiety, ethical compromises, or sleepless nights that can accompany amassing wealth without a moral compass. The more stuff you have the more stuff you have to take care of, watch over, worry about, 
• The Takeaway: $Small\ Assets + High\ Peace > Large\ Assets + High\ Stress$. It’s an argument for contentment over accumulation.

Verse 17: The Social Climate

"Better is a dinner of herbs where love is than a fattened ox and hatred with it."

• The Dinner of Herbs: In the ancient world, a meal of herbs (vegetables) was the "budget" option—the food of the commoner or the poor.
• The Fattened Ox: This represents the height of luxury—a "choice cut" reserved for royalty or major celebrations.
• The Emotional Environment: This verse points out that our physical environment is secondary to our emotional environment. A feast tastes like ash if you are eating it with someone you despise, or who despises you. Conversely, the simplest meal is elevated by genuine connection.

Why This Matters Today

In a modern context, these verses act as a warning against "the grind" at the expense of everything else. They remind us of two things:

1. Wealth cannot buy a quiet conscience. If the pursuit of "treasure" creates "trouble" (broken integrity, legal issues, or chronic anxiety), the treasure is actually a net loss.
2. Relationships are the ultimate seasoning. We often spend our lives trying to provide the "fattened ox" for our families, but these verses suggest that our families would much rather have "herbs" and a present, loving version of us.