In this week’s episode of The Audaci-Tea Podcast, hosts Lisa and Sovereign explore what it looks like for women to decenter men in everyday life and relationships. Decentering men is not a single action but a result of prioritizing women's autonomy and needs while deconstructing patriarchal norms. This episode breaks down practical steps, mindset shifts, and the empowering outcomes of putting yourself first.
But first, in Tea Time, they respond to a listener voicemail about women taking their husbands’ last names, discuss the US Border Patrol monitoring drivers and detaining pregnant women seeking reproductive health care, female MAGA influencers facing backlash for feminist stances, and a woman proposing to her boyfriend of 14 years. Later, in Mailbag, they answer a listener question about whether women need to be the ones approaching men romantically.
🎧 This episode examines how women can prioritize themselves, navigate relationships with awareness, and embrace empowerment without guilt.
🎙️ Topics Discussed:
✨ Links and Resources Mentioned:
Border Patrol monitoring US drivers and detaining those with ‘suspicious’ travel patterns
https://apnews.com/article/immigration-border-patrol-surveillance-drivers-ice-trump-9f5d05469ce8c629d6fecf32d32098cd
Georgia dismisses maternal mortality committee after ProPublica investigation
https://www.cnn.com/2024/11/21/health/georgia-maternal-mortality-committee-propublica
MAGA influencer hit with right-wing backlash over feminist comments
https://www.rawstory.com/maga-influencers/
Lizzy B on centering men as its own punishment
https://www.tiktok.com/t/ZTrkQPsHJ/
📚 This Week’s Recommendation:
The Gift of Fear: Survival Signals That Protect Us from Violence
https://a.co/d/dkAQZ9A
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https://www.patreon.com/collection/960341
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🕰️ Episode Chapters:
00:00 Welcome and Tea Time
03:15 Listener Voicemail: Should Wives Take Husbands Name?
09:15 Surveillance and Privacy Concerns in Texas
19:28 Proposing To BF of 14 Years
30:14 MAGA Influencers Accused of Feminism
37:57 What Does Decentering Men Actually Look Like?
45:18 The Result of Decentering Men
55:15 Should Women Embrace Selfishness?
01:02:57 Finding Worthy Partners
01:14:00 Checklist for Decentering Men
01:26:57 Mailbag: Do Women Need To Approach Men Romantically?
01:45:31 Poll Results: Modern Witch Hunts
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