How many times have you told yourself, "I will get back on track after the holidays, because right now is just impossible?”
We're often convinced that we need the calendar to calm down—no more travel, no more parties, no more treats—before we can finally make progress toward our goals. But what if the "right time" to lose weight isn't a date on the calendar, but a decision you make today?
In this episode, we tackle the myth that the holidays are the "worst time" to be a normal eater. We’ll show you how to swap rigid food rules for real choices, so you can enjoy the season's joy, leave every event feeling light and proud, and step into the new year with trust, not regret.
The goal isn't perfection; it's practice. Learn how to be a woman who trusts herself around food, no matter how chaotic the season gets.
In This Episode, We Cover:
- The Myth of the Right Time: Why your brain loves to delay starting, and why waiting for "perfect conditions" is the biggest block to progress.
- Rules vs. Choices: How rigid dieting leads to secret overeating, and how flexible, normal eating patterns build long-term trust and health.
- The Plate Plan for Buffets: A simple strategy for navigating parties and buffets by treating the spread like a museum, not a target.
- Handling Family Food Pressure: How to set kind boundaries and honor the cook and your body, even when love shows up as an extra serving.
- Baking & Tasting Sanely: Simple plans for enjoying holiday treats and tasting your creations without accidentally eating a whole serving before dinner.
- Chaos Control: Strategies for travel days and schedule interruptions to keep you feeling steady with simple protein and produce anchors.
- The Day-After Reset: What to do when you overeat (you're human!): how to skip the shame spiral and get back to normal in one simple meal.
- Your Holiday Toolkit: Three powerful tools—Choices, Scientist Brain, and Good/Better/Best—to help you run your own game all season long.
Key Concepts & Analogies:
- Learning to Swim: Progress comes from practicing in the shallow end with sparkly lights (the holidays!), not waiting for a quiet lab.
- The Museum Analogy: You don't carry the whole museum home. Visit a few favorite dishes with full attention, then leave with energy.
- Love as Sunshine: You can receive love (and thank the cook) without needing two extra scoops of food.
Simple Action Step for This Week:
Before your next holiday event, ask yourself these three questions: What do I want to enjoy? What is worth it? How do I want to feel later? Let your answers guide your choices.
Remember, you don't need perfect days. You need a few steady choices, repeated.
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