In this transformative episode of Healing Mindset, Hakeem Bourne McFarlane, creator, author, and founder of the Choose Yourself movement, shares how choosing yourself first can unlock healing, resilience, and personal empowerment. Hakeem dives deep into overcoming trauma, breaking self-sabotage cycles, and maintaining momentum when progress feels invisible. From establishing daily foundations to embracing discomfort intentionally, he outlines actionable steps to reclaim your power, honor your integrity, and create lasting transformation. If you’re ready to face your excuses, step into your purpose, and cultivate mental and emotional strength, this episode offers the blueprint.
About the Guest:
Hakeem Bourne McFarlane is the founder of the Choose Yourself movement, an author, and a motivational leader dedicated to helping people reclaim their power and transform their lives. With a mission to face trauma head-on and create actionable change, Hakeem inspires individuals to align with their true selves and build resilience through authenticity, discipline, and self-mastery.
Key Takeaways:
Choosing yourself means reclaiming the version of you that was meant to exist before adversity and societal expectations.
Self-focus vs. selfishness: Prioritize delayed gratification, health, and discipline instead of indulging in instant gratification.
Break free from self-sabotage by embracing discomfort and establishing daily routines that build conscious control.
Momentum is built through faith, consistency, and small daily actions that prepare you for both opportunity and adversity.
The GPS formula: Gift + Passion + Story creates a framework to leverage your unique experiences into purpose-driven action.
Integrity and authenticity in solitude anchor long-term healing and growth.
Overcoming repeated setbacks requires eliminating toxins, building structured routines, and intentionally choosing positive reflections.
Community, accountability, and deliberate preparation strengthen emotional resilience and maintain personal progress.
Embrace small controlled struggles (exercise, meditation, fasting, disciplined routines) to build internal strength and resistance to external pressures.
Connect with Hakeem Bourne McFarlane:
Instagram & Facebook: @bigdreamhakeem
Email: website
Listener Action:
Hakeem reminds us that choosing yourself isn’t optional—it’s the gateway to healing, freedom, and purpose. Start today with one deliberate choice, honor your integrity, and face discomfort head-on to reclaim your life.
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