Hey guys, and welcome back to the podcast. I’m your girl Chelly Nichole and im here today with my good sis Marshe - and today we’re stepping into a conversation that might challenge you, heal you, and maybe even step on a few toes…but this is all in love. We’re talking about finding purpose before partnership. Because so many of us were taught how to be a wife, a girlfriend, a ride-or-die but not how to be whole. Some of us are single, trying to figure out who we are without a relationship title. Some of us are in relationships still bleeding from past wounds. And some of us love God deeply but still wrestle with the tension between waiting on His timing and wanting companionship now. We were never meant to use relationships to give us identity, direction, or validation. That’s a heavy assignment to put on another human. Marshe and I want to ask the hard questions today: Are we pursuing love - or are we escaping loneliness? Are we building purpose - or just making room for someone else’s? The Bible tells us in Proverbs 19:21 “Many are the plans in a person’s heart, but it is the Lord’s purpose that prevails..” This isn’t about being anti-love, anti-marriage, or anti-men. This is about alignment. Because when you know who you are and whose you are, you stop auditioning for relationships that were never meant to cast you. So sis, wherever you are, single, healing, dating, praying, or waiting - this conversation is for you. Let’s get into it . Make sure to like, comment and share!
