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🎙️ MEN SEEKING CALM Podcast

Episode Title: The Heaven’s Reward Fallacy – Why Being “Good” Doesn’t Guarantee a Happy Ending
Host: Greg Martin | WalkTheMountain.com

🔎 Episode Summary:

In this episode, Greg shines a spotlight on one of the more frustrating (and exhausting) faulty thinking traps: The Heaven’s Reward Fallacy.

This is the quiet belief that if you’re a good man, put in the emotional effort, stay patient, and sacrifice your own needs — then eventually, your partner, life, or the universe will reward you. With what? Peace. Love. Gratitude. Less conflict. More sex. Whatever your version of “the payoff” is.

But that’s the trap. Because when the reward doesn’t show up, resentment does.

💭 What You'll Learn:

• What theHeaven’s Reward Fallacy actually is (and how it hides in noble intentions)
• Common thoughts that reveal you’re stuck in this mental loop
• Why silently hoping for love and appreciation often backfires
• How this fallacy leads to quiet martyrdom, emotional burnout, and relationship disconnect
• Why effort, without clarity or communication, turns into an invisible contract no one agreed to

🔥 Examples From the Episode:

• “After all I’ve done for her, she should treat me better.”
• “I’ve held it together — why am I still the bad guy?”
• “I’ve sacrificed so much, and nothing’s changed.”
• “I guess being a decent man gets you nowhere these days.”

🎧 Why This Matters:

This episode is for every man who’s ever thought, “If I do everything right, I’ll finally get what I deserve.” Greg unpacks why that belief creates more pain than progress — and helps listeners start to see relationships not as reward systems, but as real, living dynamics built on clarity, connection, and self-worth.

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🎧 Tune in, breathe deep, and let go of the invisible scorecard.