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Lauri Budzynski, MA, LPC, NCC , and Kristen Holmes, MS, LPC, therapists at Shoreside Therapies specializing in adoption and foster care services, share their experiences and insights working with adoptive families, adopted individuals, and foster parents. They shed light on the unique challenges associated with adoption, including attachment trauma, identity formation, behavioral issues, and the grieving process that arises from separation from birth parents.

The therapists discuss the frequent misdiagnoses, such as ADHD, that adopted children might receive due to trauma rather than focusing on the underlying attachment issues. They highlight the concept of ambiguous loss and how it impacts both adoptees and parents, advocating for a supportive and safe space to explore these complex feelings. 

Lauri and Kristen highlight the importance of adopting competent therapy and asking the right questions for effective assessment. They also announce an upcoming virtual adoption support group aimed at fostering community, support, and camaraderie for adoptive and foster parents and providing resources for navigating various aspects of adoption. The discussion resonates with the importance of building understanding, empathy, and support around adoption and foster care.

Takeaways

• Adoption work involves addressing the challenges of identity formation, attachment trauma, and ambiguous loss.
• Support groups can provide a safe space for adoptive parents to share their experiences and seek support.
• Understanding the unique needs and experiences of adoptees is crucial for adoption-competent therapy.
• Transracial adoption requires open conversations about culture, ethnicity, and identity. Workshops and support groups can provide valuable guidance and resources during transitions.
• Building a support system is crucial for adoptees and their families, and accessing resources such as IEPs and 504 plans can be beneficial.
• Support groups like Shoreside Therapies are not limited to Milwaukee County and can provide virtual support to individuals across Wisconsin.
• To learn more about the services and support offered by Shoreside Therapies, visit their website or contact them directly.

00:00 Introduction to Equal Life

01:09 Welcome to the Wisconsin Wellness Podcast

01:36 Discussion on Adoption and Foster Care

03:44 Understanding Adoption Competency

09:50 Exploring Identity Issues in Adoption

13:10 Understanding Ambiguous Loss and Grief

23:39 Introduction to the Adoption Support Group

29:24 Conclusion and Contact Information

30:06 Outro and Final Thoughts

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Shoreside Therapies Kristen and Lauri's Adoption Group:

Adoption Support Group

Referenced Adoption Book:

The Primal Wound